The feeling that you should be with someone and that you should achieve romantic attachment is one that equally excites and terrifies. It excites because you know how much love you are ready to give, and it is terrifying to think that you could also end up alone with no one to share that love with.
Being alone isn’t a curse, scary, or a bad thing that most people make it out to be. Being alone is also not lonely, unless you make it lonely.
It’s much better than settling for many sh*tty dates, which make you feel bad about yourself. It’s also much better than waking up next to someone that thinks your name is Michelle when it isn’t even close. Being single is the time you must get comfortable with yourself.
You shouldn’t get worked up or stressed about being single, since there’s no reason for that at all.
Don’t get into a relationship until you meet someone that does not make numerous excuses and does enjoy spending time with you doing what you really want to do. Stay single until you find a person that does not simply say they’ll show up but does show up excited to see you.
Don’t get into a relationship until you meet a person that talks about you and talks you up to their coworkers, family, friends, or the homeless man on the street corner. You must stay single until you find a person that’s proud as hell to show you off since anything less than it is bulls hit.
Someone whose attention you must beg for isn’t actually someone that’s worth your time. So, you should be alone until you meet a person that pays attention to you as much as possible.
Don’t get into a relationship until you find a person that cannot wait to see you but not in a controlling way. You need to find someone that cannot wait to see you in an “I miss you so badly” way. Being with a person that manipulates and controls you isn’t good.
You must stay single until you find a person that misses you when you aren’t around. You shouldn’t be with someone that forgets you exist unless they are lonely and drunk.
Be alone until you meet a person that’s proud of you, that does want you to be better, that does want to help you get there, and that does inspire you. Stay single until you find a person that puts you first as well as makes you feel like a priority as you do not have time to be an option.
You need to be alone until you meet someone that does make you feel good in your own skin and erase your insecurities.
Stay single until you meet someone that does give a shit about how you feel. Not a person that simply expects you to get over it or says “of course, you will forgive me later”.
So, don’t get into a relationship until you find someone that does give a shit about you.
Therefore, be alone. One day You will thank yourself for doing so.